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Boerne Child Custody Lawyer

Protecting Your Rights as a Parent in Boerne and Throughout Kendall County

Your Relationship With Your Children Is Worth Fighting For

Custody disputes are rarely just legal matters — they’re deeply personal, often emotionally exhausting, and the decisions made during the process can shape your family for years to come. If you’re facing a custody case in Boerne or anywhere in Kendall County, you deserve a lawyer who understands what’s at stake and knows how to navigate the Texas family court system on your behalf.

At the Gilbert Law Office, Matthew Gilbert works with parents throughout the Boerne area on all types of child custody matters — from initial orders established during a divorce or separation to post-order modifications and enforcement when co-parenting breaks down. His approach is direct and practical: he tells you what to expect, helps you build the strongest possible case, and advocates firmly for the outcome that serves your child’s best interest — and yours.

Whether your custody situation is just getting started or has already become contentious, the right time to get legal guidance is now. Contact the Gilbert Law Office to schedule a consultation with a Boerne child custody lawyer who will take your case seriously.

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How Child Custody Works in Kendall County, Texas

Texas family courts don’t use the term “custody” the way most people do. Instead, the law breaks the concept into two distinct parts: conservatorship and possession and access.

Conservatorship refers to the legal rights and responsibilities each parent holds — things like the authority to make decisions about your child’s education, medical care, and religious upbringing. Texas courts generally favor joint managing conservatorship, which means both parents share decision-making authority. In cases where one parent has a documented history of family violence, neglect, or other harmful behavior, a court may grant sole managing conservatorship to the other parent instead.

Possession and access is the physical schedule — when the child is with each parent. The Texas Standard Possession Order provides a common framework that many courts use as a starting point, but it isn’t mandatory. Judges can and do deviate from it based on the child’s age, the parents’ work schedules, geographic distance between households, and other relevant factors.

In all custody matters, the court’s guiding standard is the best interest of the child. That means demonstrating stability, a history of involvement in your child’s life, and a genuine ability to support your child’s relationship with the other parent all carry real weight. An experienced Boerne family law attorney can help you present your case in a way that speaks directly to what the court is looking for.

Custody Matters Matthew Gilbert Handles in the Boerne Area

Every custody case is different, and the Gilbert Law Office is equipped to handle a wide range of situations for Boerne and Kendall County families:

Initial Custody Orders — Whether your custody matter arises as part of a Boerne divorce or as a standalone suit affecting the parent-child relationship, getting the initial order right matters. A well-drafted order reduces ambiguity, minimizes future conflict, and gives both parents a clear framework to work within.

Custody Modifications — Texas law allows custody orders to be modified when there has been a material and substantial change in circumstances since the original order was entered. Relocation, changes in a parent’s living situation, a child’s evolving needs, or a shift in either parent’s work schedule can all potentially qualify. Matthew can help you evaluate your situation and determine whether a modification is viable.

Enforcement of Existing Orders — When the other parent repeatedly ignores the custody schedule, withholds the child without cause, or otherwise violates a court order, you have legal remedies available. The Gilbert Law Office can help you pursue enforcement through the Kendall County courts and hold the other party accountable.

Custody and Child Support — Custody and child support are closely intertwined under Texas law. Changes to your parenting schedule often affect support obligations, and it helps to work with an attorney who can address both at once rather than treating them as separate issues.

Military Custody Cases — Families connected to the military face a distinct set of challenges when it comes to custody — deployment schedules, potential relocation, and the requirements of federal law all factor in. As a veteran himself, Matthew Gilbert has a firsthand understanding of how military service intersects with family law, and he’s handled military divorce and custody matters for Boerne-area clients.

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    Client Testimonials

    Families in Boerne and across Kendall County have trusted the Gilbert Law Office with their most important legal matters. Here’s what some of them have to say.

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    Great lawyer!
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    highly recommend him as your attorney! he was able to help coach me through my court case and took the time to explain everything to me to make sure i understood everything. i am very happy the way my court case ended and was blessed to have his help.🤍
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    "Highly recommend the Gilbert Law Office! They handled my divorce case with expertise, transparency, and care. Their fees were fair, the process was efficient, and my attorney was both professional and compassionate. If you need legal help, look no further!"
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    My family and I had a great experience with Gilbert Law Office. Matt helped us through a sensitive custody battle that ultimately led to us being granted full adoption. He was very responsive throughout the process which was a huge relief!
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    Matt walked me through the process every step of the way. He was able to disseminate what was complex into a way that was easy to comprehend. Divorce isn’t easy, but it helped having Matt guide me through.
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    Absolutely a man of integrity! Honest and determined to fight for you and your family. A lawyer with loyalty to his clients and will ADVOCATE for you no matter what!
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    Mr. Gilbert helped me through a very stressful divorce and child custody battle 2023-2024. He's very straight forward, knows what he's talking about, and I truly appreciated that he fought hard for me and my children. He will DEFINITELY be my go-to law office for anything in the future. Thank you so much!!!
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    I can’t express enough gratitude for Matt and his team! Knowing what I was about to go through, I needed to do my research when it came to lawyers. I had countless phone and in person consultations before choosing someone to represent me. After all, I felt that the person I would choose had to be the most important thing I decided on. In the end I chose Matt because our conversations were never generic, or textbook , they were genuine and honest. His recommended course of action truly seemed the most beneficial for me. I could see he had my best interest at heart and that he was listening to me… and that he valued my thoughts. I felt like I could trust him and I’m glad I went with my gut because we just wrapped up my case and it went in my favor! Matt definitely exceeded my expectations and I’d refer him to anyone without hesitation. But, most importantly, Matt didn’t fail me, and at that time it’s what I needed the most.

    Frequently Asked Questions

    What’s the difference between custody and conservatorship in Texas?

    Texas family courts use the term conservatorship instead of custody. Conservatorship covers each parent’s legal rights and responsibilities, such as decision-making authority over education and medical care, while possession and access refers to the physical schedule of when the child is with each parent.

    Do Texas courts favor joint custody in Kendall County?

    Texas courts generally favor joint managing conservatorship, meaning both parents share decision-making authority. Sole managing conservatorship may be granted to one parent in cases involving a documented history of family violence, neglect, or other harmful behavior.

    Can a custody order be modified after it’s finalized?

    Yes. Texas allows modifications when there’s been a material and substantial change in circumstances since the original order, such as relocation, a change in a parent’s living situation, or a shift in a child’s needs.

    What can I do if the other parent violates our custody order?

    If the other parent repeatedly ignores the custody schedule or withholds the child without cause, you have legal remedies available. The Gilbert Law Office can help you pursue enforcement through the Kendall County courts.

    How does military service affect a custody case in Boerne?

    Families connected to the military face unique custody challenges tied to deployment schedules, potential relocation, and federal law requirements. Matthew Gilbert is a veteran and has direct experience handling military custody and divorce matters.

    How much does a child custody lawyer cost in Boerne?

    Costs vary depending on whether the case is contested and how complex the underlying issues are. We offer a free consultation to review your situation and provide clear, upfront guidance on fees before you commit to representation.

    The Gilbert Law Office serves families throughout Boerne and Kendall County from our office near the Dominion/Boerne area. We also serve clients across San Antonio and Bexar County from our Bandera Road office in San Antonio. Wherever you are in the Hill Country corridor, personalized legal help is within reach.